Is it right to hustle people or is it not? For some time now, that has been occupying my thoughts. I have to admit that although I don't advocate hustling people, I have to admit many people I know do just that.
Before I go further I need to let on what I mean by saying, 'hustling people'. By hustling people, I just mean dating people just for their money. I mean being interested in the money rather than the owner of the money.
Recently I have had opportunities whereby I could have and still could hustle people, but at all time I always shy out of it. I need to admit that to some extent I feel that it is not right. So I had to survey a few people to have their input onto how they feel about dating people for their money AKA hustling people. And I should add that these people are both Homosexual and Hetero, Boys and Girls.
Cindy
'' For me, I believe that hustling people is the only way to ensure that they don't make a full out of you. I have a notion that boys only want love if it's torture and I take it upon myself to provide that torture for them.''
Just to add up, Cindy is my best friend and she has had some bad relationship at once. And she thought that the reason why she was always made a fool out was because she was always the ideal wife material to the guys she dated. Recently, she is dating this guy Conrad and the way she treats him...whoo! it's some sort of loving-hating relationship. Is it the reason why this is the longest relationship Cindy ever had? Is it the fact that Cindy is inflicting pain onto Conrad by hustling him that makes Conrad stay?
Jerry
''I totally believe that when the person you are in a relationship provides for you financially shows exactly how much he loves you. For me, if a guy is rich and becomes stingy and doesn't give me the money that is a red flag that I am dating a selfish man. And if he can be selfish with money, which he has a lot of, it makes me believe that he can be so selfish with his heart...For fuck's sake! He only has one heart!!''
Jerry is also my close friend and he is a gay man dating this rich guy who earns a steady income. Jerry is studying to be an accountant someday and that is his outlet onto the matter .
To finalize, I think hustling people is a dirty business.... but also I can't help but think that maybe it is the spice that is needed in relationships. Why that verdict? Because both Jerry's and Cindy's relationships are going strong.
What do you think on the matter?!?
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